But I’m also here to tell you that the device–the cock cage–is not 100% necessary. Yes, it definitely serves as a very real and very potent reminder that your dick is no longer your own. But it’s not something that you absolutely have to have in order to be a chaste slave to your favorite MILF Mistress.
The Main Goal Of Chastity Is Orgasm Denial
As the above subtitle states, honestly, the main goal of male chastity is orgasm denial phone sex. It can be long-term or short-term denial. But the goal of chastity is to deprive you of cumming for however long I see fit, right?Orgasm denial is, of course, a form of cock control phone sex. It helps you learn to control your urges, rather than allowing them to control you. This is a very useful skill to have, especially if you want to serve a MILF Mistress phone sex lady like me. If you can’t control yourself so that you can focus on pleasing your Mistress, you’re going in reverse!
So some people like to turn to male chastity phone sex to help them with this sort of thing. I, personally, find chastity, with or without a device to be very helpful in this regard. Many people like the restrictive feel of a chastity device or the constant reminder that I’m in control of their cock and their orgasms. But others might not be able to use a chastity device, for multiple reasons.
Why A Chastity Device Might Not Be For You
The obvious elephant in the room when it comes to male chastity phone sex devices is a spouse. If you’re married and your spouse is unaware of your extra-curricular activities, a chastity device is an automatic no-go. You can’t lock it away if you’re trying to go under the radar. And that’s okay, no worries! We can work with that.Another reason you might not be able to wear a male chastity phone sex device is anatomy. Some people are just not built in such a way as to make wearing one a possibility. You can try different styles and models, of course. But you may find that none of them work for you. Does that mean you can’t be chaste sub for your Mistress? Of course not! We can still make it work for you.
Other people may not be able to wear a chastity device because of traveling, or security at work, or many other reasons. Due to various life circumstances, they simply can’t use one. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be a male chastity phone sex slave for me. It just means your “device” is the honor system, lol.
Male Chastity Phone Sex Can Work Without A Device
Yes, it’s true that chastity might be considered more “fun” with a device. You get to get into virtual keyholder phone sex and that sort of thing. But the device is not strictly necessary.If you’re a person who can’t wear one, regardless of reason, I’m still able to work with you. I’ll be happy to help control your cock using only the aforementioned honor system. But I do expect you to be 100% honest with me at all times. If you can’t keep your hands off of it in my absence, you must confess that to me. You’ll need to be sure of that. But otherwise, things will function in exactly the same way as they do for my chaste subs with devices.
So tell me, are you a chastity device user? If so, great! If not, I’d like to hear why not. And if you want to discuss male chastity phone sex further, then you know what to do. Simply click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call!