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Male Chastity Phone Sex: With A Chastity Device And Without

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Hi, guys, let’s talk about male chastity phone sex today! I know most people, when they think of chastity phone sex, assume a chastity device must be involved. And, yes, that is one way to indulge in it.

But I’m also here to tell you that the device–the cock cage–is not 100% necessary. Yes, it definitely serves as a very real and very potent reminder that your dick is no longer your own. But it’s not something that you absolutely have to have in order to be a chaste slave to your favorite MILF Mistress.

The Main Goal Of Chastity Is Orgasm Denial

As the above subtitle states, honestly, the main goal of male chastity is orgasm denial phone sex. It can be long-term or short-term denial. But the goal of chastity is to deprive you of cumming for however long I see fit, right?

Orgasm denial is, of course, a form of cock control phone sex. It helps you learn to control your urges, rather than allowing them to control you. This is a very useful skill to have, especially if you want to serve a MILF Mistress phone sex lady like me. If you can’t control yourself so that you can focus on pleasing your Mistress, you’re going in reverse!

So some people like to turn to male chastity phone sex to help them with this sort of thing. I, personally, find chastity, with or without a device to be very helpful in this regard. Many people like the restrictive feel of a chastity device or the constant reminder that I’m in control of their cock and their orgasms. But others might not be able to use a chastity device, for multiple reasons.

Why A Chastity Device Might Not Be For You

The obvious elephant in the room when it comes to male chastity phone sex devices is a spouse. If you’re married and your spouse is unaware of your extra-curricular activities, a chastity device is an automatic no-go. You can’t lock it away if you’re trying to go under the radar. And that’s okay, no worries! We can work with that.

Another reason you might not be able to wear a male chastity phone sex device is anatomy. Some people are just not built in such a way as to make wearing one a possibility. You can try different styles and models, of course. But you may find that none of them work for you. Does that mean you can’t be chaste sub for your Mistress? Of course not! We can still make it work for you.

Other people may not be able to wear a chastity device because of traveling, or security at work, or many other reasons. Due to various life circumstances, they simply can’t use one. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be a male chastity phone sex slave for me. It just means your “device” is the honor system, lol.

Male Chastity Phone Sex Can Work Without A Device

Yes, it’s true that chastity might be considered more “fun” with a device. You get to get into virtual keyholder phone sex and that sort of thing. But the device is not strictly necessary.

If you’re a person who can’t wear one, regardless of reason, I’m still able to work with you. I’ll be happy to help control your cock using only the aforementioned honor system. But I do expect you to be 100% honest with me at all times. If you can’t keep your hands off of it in my absence, you must confess that to me. You’ll need to be sure of that. But otherwise, things will function in exactly the same way as they do for my chaste subs with devices.

So tell me, are you a chastity device user? If so, great! If not, I’d like to hear why not. And if you want to discuss male chastity phone sex further, then you know what to do. Simply click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call!

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JOI Phone Sex: Guided Masturbation For Strokers And More!

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Ok, guys, I want to talk to you today about another fetish I really enjoy, and that’s JOI phone sex. The reason I decided to write about this (fabulous) fetish is that I’ve been getting a lot of messages about it. People see that I’m a Femdom, and they wonder if I’m really into giving JOI. So I’m going to address this right here and right now: Yes, I do JOI phone sex. And not only do I do it, but I also really, really love it!

So let’s delve a little farther into JOI, what it means, who can enjoy it, and in which ways you can indulge in it!

So What *Is* JOI Phone Sex, Mistress?

Let’s answer the obvious question first and foremost. Most of you are probably familiar with the term “JOI,” but maybe there are some who aren’t. So we’ll define it for those of you who might not know.

JOI stands for “jerk-off instructions.” Others might know it as guided masturbation phone sex. It falls under the larger umbrella of cock control phone sex.

Some people might consider it “Femdom lite” or whatever. But I, personally, think it’s a great way for guys who aren’t into hardcore Femdom stuff to experience Woman In Control-type fantasies. They want to play with themselves, and they want to get off. But what could be sexier than a woman giving you directions on how to stroke, while you turn off your brain and just do what you’re told? It’s so hot!

Who Can Indulge In Guided Masturbation?

The great thing about JOI phone sex is that pretty much anyone can enjoy it. All it takes is a cock, your hand (or toys, if you like), some lube (if you want), and a willingness to let go and follow directions.

That means if you’re a regular guy, you can totally go for it. If you’re a sissy phone sex girl–that is, one of my special lady friends–you can learn how to rub your little clitty just like a girl would do. Also, if you have toys you want to incorporate, just let me know, and we’ll work them in, be they male masturbation toys or anal toys. If you are a gooner who likes lots of orgasm edging phone sex, I can maket hat happen, too. If you’re locked in male chastity, you can even participate (more on that later).

So it really doesn’t matter who you are. If you want to give it a whirl, you’re welcome!

How To Enjoy Jerk-Off Instructions With Your Favorite Mature Femdom

Traditional strokers may want to bring their lube with them. (What’s your favorite kind, by the way? I’m partial to using oil-based lube for JOI phone sex. Just don’t ever use it with condoms, please and thank you.) Gooning lovers will definitely need it. Would you like to be told how to stroke? Or do you prefer to hear a story or do a small roleplay while you stroke? Or a little of both? We can do any or all of that. However, you should know that I don’t roleplay sex. It doesn’t matter how nice your cock is, I don’t give my callers pussy privileges!

Also, you’ll want to tell me if what you’re after is actually tease and denial phone sex or if you really want tease and delay. What’s the difference, you ask? Tease and delay merely delays your orgasm a bit. You’ll still get to have it, but you’ll have to wait a bit. Tease and denial, on the other hand, means no orgasm for you! So be sure to specify what you want. Or if you prefer for it to be Mistress’s choice, be ready for anything, up to and including ruined orgasm phone sex! (That one’s a whole other blog post in and of itself.)

Anyway, the moral of the story is, if you want to get off, make sure to tell me! I can help you let off some steam. But make sure you’re clear on what you’re looking for here.

Directed Masturbation For Toy Sluts And Chastity Slaves

Do you enjoy playing with toys? Well, just because I called most JOI phone sex fans “strokers” doesn’t mean you can’t play, too! Just bring your toys and your lube with you when you call. Make sure you let me know you have them, and we’ll work them in. Fleshlight or other male masturbation toy? We’ll use it! Anal toys, like butt plugs, anal beads, dildos, vibrators, etc.? We’ll incorporate that, too. In fact, I think anal toys make JOI phone sex massively more intense, for both of us!

And if you’re a chastity phone sex guy whose cock is locked away, you can still join the fun. I’ll be happy to take you out of your cage and edge you a bit. Or maybe we can do some anal play here, too, or use a vibe on your cage. But if I’m not the one holding the key to your device, I won’t be letting you cum. If I don’t hold the key, I don’t make the decision.

JOI Phone Sex For Sissies And Femmes

If you’re a special lady friend, don’t worry! I wanted to address the traditional strokers first in this post, but I’ll never forget you ladies. I just had to give the guys the first part.

So sissies, crossdressers, panty boys, lingerie fetishist–anyone who likes embracing their feminine side can dress and still enjoy JOI phone sex. How? Well, I’m going to teach you to masturbate like a girl! If you’re all dressed up and feeling like a sexy whore, you can act like one for me.

That’s right, you can rub your clitty for me until you cum in your panties. Doesn’t that sound fantastic? It certainly does to me!

So there you have it, a few ways that you, too, can enjoy JOI phone sex with Ms. KC. Don’t think for a moment, though, that those are the only ways you can indulge. There are plenty of others. It’s just that this post has gone on so long that I feel obligated to end it here! But no matter who you are, if you’re looking for jerk-off instructions, give me a call by clicking the button below. We’ll have so much fun together!

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