Crossdresser Phone Sex: A Newbie’s Guide To Panties And Lingerie

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Hello to all my crossdresser phone sex guys! I know there are a number of you out there because I have quite a few feminization phone sex sessions with you guys pretty regularly. And if you really want to know, I absolutely love those sessions!

So I thought that today, we could talk about some crossdressing phone sex basics for those of you who are interested in becoming a crossdresser, but maybe haven’t made the big leap just yet. What do you think?

Panties Are Usually The First Step

I won’t say that it’s always the case that a male person becomes interested in panties first when it comes to crossdressing. But I will say that panties are the most common item that a person curious about feminization becomes interested in. And it makes sense when you think about it, right? Panties are easy to get your hands on. (All you have to do is go in your wife or girlfriend’s panty drawer, after all.) They’re also easy to buy for yourself because there’s always that plausible deniability that you’re just buying them for your significant other. And you really don’t have to have a lot knowledge of women’s underthings to wear them. You just grab a pair and pull them on, same as with men’s underwear. (Only panties are way sexier and more comfy, to boot!)

So, yes, panties are often the gateway drug to crossdresser phone sex. If you’re curious about crossdressing, then trying on a pair of panties is an excellent way to tell if it’s for you. If you like the way you look and feel in the panties, then perhaps crossdresser phone sex is just what you need. If not, then you can move on with your life with your curiosity satisfied.

Different Types Of Panties For Crossdressing

As you probably already know, there are many different types of panties out there you can try. You’re probably familiar with the basic styles already. For example, there are thongs, g-strings, bikini, and briefs that most already know about. But there are several other styles as well! Each style has varying degrees of coverage. So that means it’s all about what feels most comfortable to you.

If you’re looking for something more revealing, thongs or g-strings might be right up your alley. If you want something a little more subdued, perhaps briefs would be preferable for you. And if you want something in-between, perhaps high-cut briefs, bikinis, or even boy shorts would be just the thing!

Of course, there’s more to panties than just the style, although that, too, is important. For many crossdresser phone sex guys, the fabric and the color are important considerations as well. Some like pink for the “girly” factor. Others prefer black or red for the sexiness of them. Still others like to wear different colors, depending on their mood, or even prints, like florals or polka dots.

Panties are definitely a good entry point into crossdresser phone sex for most guys. Some may stop there and just consider themselves panty boy phone sex lovers. Others may take it a little further and try some other types of lingerie, too!

Crossdresser Phone Sex Often Involves Other Types Of Lingerie As Well

Another popular clothing item for crossdressing fun is nylons. These are usually stockings, though they can also be pantyhose, too. Lots of crossdressers just love the feel of soft nylons against the skin of their legs and feet. When paired with a nice style of panty, nylons can be like kryptonite for an avid crossdresser!

Some crossdressers also get into things like bras that match their panties or corsets or sexy nighties or bodysuits. There are all kinds of possibilities when it comes to lingerie. All you have to do is a little research to see what appeals most to you. Then, you make a quick online order, and you can try it for yourself! (Or you can go to your local lingerie shop, if you like that kind of thrill.)

So, yes, panties and other types of lingerie are always a good choice when experimenting with crossdressing. If this is something you’d like to try–or if you just need some suggestions for furthering your feminization journey–give me, Ms. KC, a call by clicking the button below. Talk to you soon!

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Stocking Fetish Phone Sex: How Do You Like Your Nylons?

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Hello to all you stocking fetish phone sex guys and girls out there! How’s it going today? Is everyone doing well? I certainly hope so. I know I’m doing well, as it’s finally starting to get to be decent weather to wear stockings, skirts or dresses, and heels up here in the vicinity of Pittsburgh. So, naturally, I’m doing much better now!

How Do You Like Stockings Best

Now, I know we all love stockings. I think most people, at least, like the look of them. But for stocking fetish phone sex lovers, it goes much deeper than that. And I think that’s fantastic because I love talking to people who enjoy stocking fetish phone sex fantasies. So let’s discuss it a little more in-depth.

I find that people who like stockings generally fall into one of two camps. You either like seeing them on others, or you like wearing them yourself. And, sometimes, if you’re a crossdresser with a partner, you might like both–dressing up in your stockings while your partner dresses up in theirs. But usually, if we’re talking nylon fetish phone sex, a person tends to go in one of those two directions, if not both at the same time!

Stockings fall under the broader umbrella of lingerie fetish phone sex. Lingerie fetish, like stocking fetish, usually has two branches–the “admiring” branch and the “wearing” branch, though there is a not insignificant number of you out there who do both.

Lingerie And Stocking Admirers

If you like watching a MILF phone sex lady like myself wear stockings, you’re probably in the “admirer” category. And that’s great because I enjoy pulling on a sexy pair of stockings from time to time. It’s a great way to act like a cock tease toward a submissive man, in my opinion. Subs like stockings, and they really like seeing their Mistress wearing them. So you can drive them absolutely crazy if you play your cards just right. 😉

I also find that if they’re into body worship phone sex–particularly foot and leg worship–they often have a thing for stockings (or sometimes socks), too! This works out fine for me as well because I’d just as soon be worshipped wearing my stockings as without them.

(I do have to admit, though, that, as much as I do enjoy nylon fetish fantasies, I’m not a pantyhose person. I’m sorry, please don’t throw rotten tomatoes at me. They’re just not my thing. But a nice pair of stockings? Yes, please!)

Stocking Fetish Phone Sex And Crossdressing

If you’re a “wearer,” rather than an admirer, which do you prefer? Stockings or pantyhose? Or do you even have a preference? I know the lovely feeling of nylon against your skin can make it difficult to choose one or the other, lol.

Yes, as you have probably already guessed, I do love it when guys, crossdressers, sissies, and others wear their nylons for me. I, personally, find it pretty sexy. Crossdressing phone sex is already fun, but I think adding stockings to the mix takes it to the next level. What do you think?

And if you like to wear your stockings alongside another person while you stroke for me, I’m more than willing to let you help me put my stockings on me! I’d love to cross my nylon-clad legs in front of you while you stroke more and more frantically.

So if you have a stocking fetish phone sex fantasy you’d like to share with me, I’d love to hear it. And if you have other fantasies that go along with it, please let me hear those, too. I find stocking fetish phone sex goes well with a number of other fetishes, too. I’m talking things like cuckolding, feminization, body worship, and so much more.

So if you’re ready to talk about it, click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a ring on NiteFlirt!

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Feminization Phone Sex: It’s A Spectrum

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If you all are wondering why I titled this blog feminization phone sex, rather than sissy phone sex, I’ll be happy to tell you. It’s partly because I don’t like the word “sissy,” as I have said before (though I will use it in my posts sometimes so that people who identify as sissies can find my blogs). I do prefer the term “special lady friends.” But it’s mostly because feminization is a spectrum, and I would like to speak to everyone who’s on that spectrum today.

On One End, We Have Lovely Trans Women

For example, on one end of the spectrum, we have our lovely trans ladies. They live their lives 100% as a woman at all times. And we fully support them in that here! In fact, I have a dear friend who’s a trans woman. You’d never know without being told that she’s trans. She’s lived her truth as a woman for many, many years now. She has totally transitioned, and that’s wonderful for her.

Trans women are special to me for many reasons, and the fact that I have some as friends is just one of those reasons. If you’re a trans woman, whether you have transitioned yet or not, and you need someone to talk to (even if it’s nothing sexy), I’m always here to listen.

In The Middle Section, We Have Sissies And Crossdressers

In the middle of the feminization phone sex scale, we’ve got people who are sissies (i.e., special lady friends) and crossdressers. These people often live parts of their lives as women. The difference between a sissy and a crossdresser is simply their attitude toward dressing. They both embrace their inner femininity. But sissies tend to be very exaggerated in their femininity and often get sexual pleasure out of dressing. That’s not to say that crossdressing phone sex can’t be sexual. It certainly can be! But crossdressers tend to be a little less exaggerated in their femininity.

I should pause here to say this: There is no right or wrong way to do feminization phone sex, by the way. One way is not better than the other. They’re just different and all equally valid.

I know a number of sissies, of course. I also know a number of crossdressers. A lot of them are very “passable,” though I don’t care much for that word, either, due to its connotations. But these crossdressers often have complete male lives in addition to their female lives. It’s not necessarily sexual for them; they just enjoy their femme side every now and then.

Special Lady Friends And Feminization Phone Sex

Now…let’s address the special lady friends. You know, the ones who often self-identify as sissies. Some of them turn into total cock whores when they’re all dressed up nice and pretty for me. I love cock as much as the next person, but, man, they make me look downright puritan! They slip into a pair of stockings or panties and a slutty outfit, and all decorum goes out the window!

There’s nothing wrong with craving having your holes filled when you’re all dressed up, either, by the way. I just think it’s hilarious how slutty some of you can get under the right circumstances!

Panty Boys, Lingerie Fetishists, And Assorted Other Femme-Adjacent People

Now, on the other end of the spectrum, you got your panty boy phone sex lovers. These people are usually just aroused by the feel of the panties against their skin. They rarely get into anything other than panties, and only that because they are sexually aroused by them.

Lingerie fetishists are similar, only they tend to like other pieces of lingerie besides just panties. They’re not full-on crossdressers or sissies. They simply love the feel of the silky material next to their skin.

Really, there are a ton of ways to enjoy feminization phone sex…and a ton of reasons to indulge in it. Let’s explore some of those reasons!

Reasons People Love Feminization Phone Sex

I say all this to say that not everyone who dresses is struggling with feeling like a woman trapped in a man’s body. If you do feel that way, there’s a good possibility your gender may not match the sex you were designated as at birth. And that’s okay, too! We can discuss all your gender feelings if you need to.

Some people dress as an escape from their regular life. Their femme alter ego may be different, personality-wise, from their usual self. Some are full-on sluts, and that’s great, too! But I don’t make the mistake of thinking feminization phone sex equals cocksucking or pegging or what have you. Some people are into all those things, while others just like the feminization aspect.

I try to never judge or assume anything when it comes to gender and sexuality. Your kinks have nothing to do with gender and sexuality, and gender does not equal sexuality, either. You know my trans friend I mentioned above? She’s actually a lesbian. So no assumptions made here! That being said, you’ll have to use your words to tell me what you want or need because I don’t like to make assumptions.

But if you have any kind of feminization phone sex desires and you need someone to talk to, just click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call. I would love to hear from you!

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