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Virtual Keyholding Phone Sex: Needing A Chastity Mistress

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Hey, guys, I wanna talk to you today about virtual keyholding phone sex, which many of you also know by the name of male chastity phone sex. This is one of the many fetishes I really love talking about with my callers. So let’s discuss it today!

Missing A Long-Term Chastity Mistress

One of the reasons a person may seek out a virtual keyholding phone sex experience is that they’re missing an old long-term chastity Mistress. Perhaps their relationship with their chastity Mistress ended for one reason or another. People drift apart. Things simply don’t work out. Circumstances interfere with otherwise good relationships. It could be any reason at all. But despite the end of the relationship, the sub in question still aches for being locked away in chastity. That’s where I come in.

They long for this past relationship and the security that comes with knowing their cocks are caged. They need someone to provide this for them. And so they come to me and ask me if I can. Can I? Yes, I can–with a caveat. And that caveat is, only if we’re a good fit for each other. A little talking, a little experimenting together, a little time–that’s all it takes to determine if we fit together well.

I’m not going to try to make something work that clearly isn’t going to work. That’s not good for either of us. But if I think our association has potential, I’m more than happy to talk about virtual keyholding phone sex with you.

Needing Male Chastity In Your Life As Extreme Cock Control

I understand the longing for a keyholder phone sex relationship. You crave giving up the control yourself and handing it over to someone stronger than you are. Long-term chastity is cock control phone sex carried to the extreme. So while not everyone craves that, some do, and nothing else will do.

Now, I know some of you may wonder why others want chastity phone sex so badly. The truth is, I could write a three-part series on the benefits of chastity and why people need it. (And, yes, I’ll consider doing so at some point.) It’s not all about orgasm denial. It can be fun, playful, a type of foreplay, etc. There are many ways to enjoy it.

But for now, I’d like to focus on those of you who do need virtual keyholding phone sex with a chastity Mistress like me. I know some of you are really missing that kind of connection. You come to me on the phone, via email, through NF chat, etc., to ask me if you can really experience that kind of connection over the phone. And my answer to that is, yes, yes, you can!

Building A Bond With Virtual Keyholding Phone Sex

Just in the past week, I’ve had multiple people reach out to me about this. And here’s the thing: Even if you can’t see the other person, there are ways to build that bond. You just have to know what works for you so that you can articulate that to me.

Do you want short-term or long-term chastity? Are you into very sensual Mistresses or very strict Mistresses? What are your goals for being locked in chastity? What do you hope to accomplish? These are some questions you should think about before you reach out to a chastity Mistress for virtual keyholding phone sex.

Like with most things in life, you have to find what fits. I can’t guarantee that I’ll be a good fit for everyone, but I feel sure I can click with some of you. There are also things we can lay out together that I can help you with, like scheduling, personality, end goals, communication, and so forth. So if you’d like to speak with me about chastity phone sex, I’d love to hear from you. Just click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call. I hope this helps. Talk to you soon!

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Prick Tease Phone Sex: Cock Teasing With A MILF Mistress

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Do you guys like prick tease phone sex? I know it’s something that’s often associated with younger Mistresses, but I’m here to tell you that we mature Femdoms can tease with the best of them. In fact, we have so much experience with cock teasing phone sex that we can almost do it in our sleep!

Honestly, I’m writing this blog because I realized it’s been a while since I said anything about tease and denial phone sex, which is really too bad. It’s past time for me to discuss it because it’s a subject I can wax poetic about for a good, long while. So let’s do it, shall we?

Prick Tease Phone Sex Stays On Your Mind

The thing I love most about prick tease phone sex is the way it stays on you guys’ minds, even while you’re out and about doing regular stuff. When you experience tease and denial and orgasm edging phone sex with me, it’s not something you can easily forget about. And that’s something I count on! I love to keep you guys coming back for more.

My favorite guys are the guys who have lives outside of their kinks. They may be gym guys who like to train in the gym. Or they may be businessmen or golfers (or, in many cases, both!). They may also be motorcycle guys on their Harleys or fishing guys who love to cast a line. Just any kind of guy who has things to do is the best kind.

But between them living their best lives, they come and call me for some edging and some tease and denial. And I leak into their minds when they’re out doing those things they enjoy doing. They can’t help but think about me and what kind of wily tricks I’m going to subject them to on our next prick tease phone sex call.

Cock Control Comes In Many Forms

I’m going to take a brief detour here and mention cock control phone sex, as teasing and edging definitely fall under the overarching umbrella of cock control. I know when a lot of you think of cock control, you think of chastity or long-term denial or whatever. But that doesn’t necessarily have to be the case. Tease and denial can be as short or as long as you’d like for it to be. Just make sure you discuss your expectations with me beforehand so that we’re both on the same page.

If you’re up for an extended tease and delay phone sex session that lasts for a day or so, that’s definitely a form of cock control. And I would love to control your cock in that manner! Cock teasing is an art, and I am an artiste, if you catch my drift.

Okay, Now Back To The Tease And Denial

Anyway, as I was saying before that short divergence, I like to stay on your mind while you’re doing the things you do in your life. I like it when you’re wondering what might happen the next time we talk. It amuses me to know your mind isn’t 100% on what you’re doing. A part of it is still caught up with me!

I like it when you think to yourself, “I wonder if she’ll let me cum this time if I edge enough for her?” Yes, this is an important part of prick tease phone sex, the edging. The more times you can do it, the closer you’ll get to the perfect orgasm for me.

I want to hear you beg. I want to hear the desperation in your voice as you ask me for what you need. (No whining, though. I detest whining. Nothing turns me off faster.)

The good news about all this, though, is that if you’re a good enough boy and edge enough for me, you might get to cum. I won’t guarantee it, but I’ll tell you there’s a pretty good chance. The odds are in your favor, at any rate. May they always stay that way….

If you would like some MILF prick tease phone sex, give me, Ms. KC, a call by clicking the button below. I can’t wait to hear from you and play with you!

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My Chastity Phone Sex Rules

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Hey there, guys, let’s talk chastity phone sex today! This is a very popular topic for me. I get a lot of guys who are interested in male chastity phone sex with me. So since so many of you are into that sort of thing, I thought we’d discuss it today.

The First Rule Of Chastity Phone Sex

I have a couple of rules when it comes to chastity, and I’m pretty strict about them. (This has nothing to do with whether or not I’ll let you out of chastity sometimes, by the way.)

The first rule is, if you’re interested in chastity and virtual keyholding phone sex with me as your main chastity Mistress, you must convince me to lock your cock up. You see, I’m not a Mistress who necessarily believes all men’s dicks should be locked away. Some ladies do, and I’m perfectly okay with that, as they’re welcome to their own opinions. But for me, I think chastity is only for guys who are truly serious about it. (Which, let’s be honest, rules out many of them.)

If you only imagine yourself in male chastity when you’re horny, there’s a good possibility that you’re not going to be able to convince me. I don’t want to lock you up just because the thought of it makes your cock hard. I want to lock you up because it makes you a better servant to me. Otherwise, what am I getting out of this arrangement?

As sort of a corollary to rule one, I also want you to do your due diligence when it comes to research about chastity and chastity phone sex. You’ll be learning about how to maintain cleanliness and health, how to choose the right chastity device for you, and so on.

Doing Your Research On Male Chastity

So what I want you to do, once you have thoroughly researched chastity and how it works, is come to me and say, “Ms. KC, I would like for you to lock me in chastity.” Be prepared for me to ask you why you want this. Like I said above, if the answer is, “Because the thought of it makes me horny,” I’m denying your request. If I think you have potential as a chaste sub, I might send you back to the drawing board for more reflection and research. But if not, it’s a flat no.

If I’m impressed by your response to my question about why, though, we’ll move on to the the next phase. This is where we practice cock control phone sex and orgasm denial phone sex in the short term. This will give you an idea of what chastity phone sex might be like. I’ll also teach you prostate milking so that you can maintain your prostate health while also being denied orgasm.

Cock Control Can Lead To Virtual Keyholding If You Do Well

At this point, if you’ve done well with your trial runs, I’ll allow you to purchase a male chastity device. I’m leaving it up to you what kind of cock cage to buy. That’s because I want it to fit you perfectly. If you choose the wrong thing, you can always buy another one until you find the right one.

Then, we’ll indulge in some chastity phone sex. I’ll let you lock it up for me, and I’ll virtually hold the key for you. This means I won’t physically have your key, but my word will control your access to it. You can expect a lot of tease and denial phone sex during this time. Why? Because I want to test your self-discipline and resolve.

Finally, if all our trial runs go well, then we’ll discuss whether we want this chastity thing to be a part-time thing or a full-time thing. If you only want it to be part-time, that’s fine. If you’re interested in something more long-term, that’s also great.

One final note here: If another Mistress has locked you in chastity, please don’t come to me asking to be let out. I will not override another Mistress’s orders for anyone. I have too much respect for other dominant women to ever do that.

All right, guys, there’s the lowdown on chastity phone sex with me. If it’s something you’re interested in, simply click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call on Niteflirt. Talk to you soon!

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Guided Masturbation Phone Sex: My Undying Love Of JOI!

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Hey, everybody, let’s talk today about guided masturbation phone sex. You see, this is one of my favorite fetishes when it comes to domination phone sex. Everyone likes to ask me what my faves are, and this one is at the very top of the list. The only problem? I don’t get nearly enough of these types of calls!

Yep, people love asking me about what I enjoy, which, to be fair, is a totally relevant question. But I don’t often get asked what I would like to do more of. And the answer to that is–guided masturbation phone sex!

JOI Should Be More Popular

I have no idea why JOI–or “jerk-off instructions,” which is another name for guided masturbation–is not more popular on Niteflirt. But I’m going to attempt to single-handedly change that because I miss doing these types of sessions! Let me tell you a little more about my long-time love affair with helping guys stroke their cocks.

Okay, one thing you should know about me is that I really like both giving handjobs and watching my lovers masturbate. There’s something really exciting about watching someone show you what they enjoy and then trying to duplicate it yourself (and perhaps add a few more interesting tricks, too!). I’m really good with my hands, and over the years, I’ve learned a lot of fun things to do with them involving a penis. So, of course, I want to share that knowledge with you guys.

So when someone calls me and says they’re interested in guided masturbation phone sex, my ears automatically perk up. I can’t help but want to get involved with that. I’m a cock control phone sex junkie, anyway. (Guided masturbation is probably my favorite form of cock control, though there are some other forms that give it a run for its money!)

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex Is What I Live For

Obviously, it makes me sad that JOI phone sex doesn’t seem to be more popular on Niteflirt. I could do those calls pretty much all day, every day and be happy. That’s because each guided masturbation phone sex session is a little (or sometimes a lot) different. You never get accustomed to the same old, same old when it comes to JOI. Why? It’s because everyone’s body is unique. Not everyone likes the same things. So every session is something different!

There’s also the fact that things can go a number of ways with JOI. Some people are really into tease and denial, ruined orgasms, etc. You can edge a person for minutes or hours or even days or weeks (with breaks in between, obviously!). You can deny them altogether in the end, or you can ruin their orgasm at the last minute. Or, on the other hand, you can give them the orgasm of their life! It just depends on what kind of mood I’m in and what I think you need most from me at any given time.

Who Can Enjoy JOI With Me?

You can even enjoy guided masturbation phone sex with me if you’re not a full-on stroker. Don’t worry, I know exactly how to help you masturbate, even if you’re a special lady friend who doesn’t actually stroke. I’m very good at giving rubbing instructions as well. 😉

This applies even if you’re in chastity. I can give you guided masturbation phone sex instructions with things like vibrators, anal play, ball play, or other types of play that don’t involve your actual cock. So basically, anyone can come and enjoy this with me.

Even if you’ve never tried JOI before, I invite you to give it a shot. You don’t even have to be particularly submissive. I don’t require you to devote yourself to me 100% to give you jerk-off instructions. You just have to be able to follow to directions without excessive questions or hesitations. If you can do that, you can enjoy guided masturbation.

So why not come on and let me indulge in one of my favorite fetishes? Give me, Ms. KC, a call right now by clicking the button below and let me teach you how to stroke (or rub) for me!

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Tease And Denial Phone Sex: Tease And Denial, Tease And Delay, Or Ruined Orgasms?

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Tease and denial phone sex is a favorite of mine. It’s a great form of cock control phone sex that I really like engaging in. So let’s talk about tease and denial a little, shall we?

Get To Know Me On Tease And Denial Phone Sex

One thing you should know about me is that I can definitely be a “be careful what you ask for” Mistress. If you ask for tease and denial, then you will definitely *get* tease and denial. So if you don’t want to be completely denied at the end, I suggest you ask me for tease and delay phone sex instead.

So what’s the difference between the two? Well, the answer is all in the name. With tease and denial phone sex, I’ll tease you like crazy and get you all worked up for me. Then, at the end, I won’t let you cum at all. I’ll send you to bed with blue balls! But with tease and delay, you’ll be teased in the exact same (ruthless) manner, but you’ll be allowed to cum at the end…after a delay. The exact amount of time involved in that delay just depends on my mood. But you’ll be able to get off before you hang up the phone.

Now, if you like playing with fire, you might say “Mistress’s choice.” That means I can choose what I want to do with you after our teasing session. I might let you cum. I might delay your orgasm, or I might deny it. Or I might even do something totally different, such as….

Ruined Orgasms Are Also An Option

Another form of cock control that I really like is ruined orgasm phone sex. This is another one of the options that comes into play when you elect to do Mistress’s choice during your teasing session.

So what’s a ruined orgasm? It’s when you technically get to cum, as in your penis has the orgasm response, but it’s not satisfying or fulfilling at all. It just kind of sucks, lol. Some guys love ruined orgasms, and some love to hate them. But me, I’m always a big fan of giving them out!

Choose Denial, Delay, Ruined Orgasms, Or Something Else

That being said, I do allow people to choose their own ending to their cock teasing phone sex fantasies. Assuming they ask me nicely, of course. You don’t get to come in and demand what you want, but if you make it a polite request, I’ll happily take your needs into consideration when it comes to tease and denial phone sex and whether or not that’s actually what you want.

I always ask up front if you want denial, delay, ruined orgasms, or something else. Perhaps you’re longing for tease and denial phone sex and do want to be sent to bed with blue balls. Maybe that ache between your legs gives you something to look forward to every day. Or maybe you do want an orgasm at the end so that you can go to bed fully satiated. Or perhaps what you need is ruination–to have your orgasm ruined so that you’re just as tormented as you would be if you had been denied altogether.

It’s all up to you. What do you need? What are your feelings on tease and denial phone sex? Do you love it, hate it, or have mixed feelings on the subject? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so why not give me, Ms. KC, a call by clicking the button below? You can request what you want to happen during your prick tease phone sex session, and I’ll be glad to give it to you!

Talk to you soon!

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JOI Phone Sex: Guided Masturbation For Strokers And More!

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Ok, guys, I want to talk to you today about another fetish I really enjoy, and that’s JOI phone sex. The reason I decided to write about this (fabulous) fetish is that I’ve been getting a lot of messages about it. People see that I’m a Femdom, and they wonder if I’m really into giving JOI. So I’m going to address this right here and right now: Yes, I do JOI phone sex. And not only do I do it, but I also really, really love it!

So let’s delve a little farther into JOI, what it means, who can enjoy it, and in which ways you can indulge in it!

So What *Is* JOI Phone Sex, Mistress?

Let’s answer the obvious question first and foremost. Most of you are probably familiar with the term “JOI,” but maybe there are some who aren’t. So we’ll define it for those of you who might not know.

JOI stands for “jerk-off instructions.” Others might know it as guided masturbation phone sex. It falls under the larger umbrella of cock control phone sex.

Some people might consider it “Femdom lite” or whatever. But I, personally, think it’s a great way for guys who aren’t into hardcore Femdom stuff to experience Woman In Control-type fantasies. They want to play with themselves, and they want to get off. But what could be sexier than a woman giving you directions on how to stroke, while you turn off your brain and just do what you’re told? It’s so hot!

Who Can Indulge In Guided Masturbation?

The great thing about JOI phone sex is that pretty much anyone can enjoy it. All it takes is a cock, your hand (or toys, if you like), some lube (if you want), and a willingness to let go and follow directions.

That means if you’re a regular guy, you can totally go for it. If you’re a sissy phone sex girl–that is, one of my special lady friends–you can learn how to rub your little clitty just like a girl would do. Also, if you have toys you want to incorporate, just let me know, and we’ll work them in, be they male masturbation toys or anal toys. If you are a gooner who likes lots of orgasm edging phone sex, I can maket hat happen, too. If you’re locked in male chastity, you can even participate (more on that later).

So it really doesn’t matter who you are. If you want to give it a whirl, you’re welcome!

How To Enjoy Jerk-Off Instructions With Your Favorite Mature Femdom

Traditional strokers may want to bring their lube with them. (What’s your favorite kind, by the way? I’m partial to using oil-based lube for JOI phone sex. Just don’t ever use it with condoms, please and thank you.) Gooning lovers will definitely need it. Would you like to be told how to stroke? Or do you prefer to hear a story or do a small roleplay while you stroke? Or a little of both? We can do any or all of that. However, you should know that I don’t roleplay sex. It doesn’t matter how nice your cock is, I don’t give my callers pussy privileges!

Also, you’ll want to tell me if what you’re after is actually tease and denial phone sex or if you really want tease and delay. What’s the difference, you ask? Tease and delay merely delays your orgasm a bit. You’ll still get to have it, but you’ll have to wait a bit. Tease and denial, on the other hand, means no orgasm for you! So be sure to specify what you want. Or if you prefer for it to be Mistress’s choice, be ready for anything, up to and including ruined orgasm phone sex! (That one’s a whole other blog post in and of itself.)

Anyway, the moral of the story is, if you want to get off, make sure to tell me! I can help you let off some steam. But make sure you’re clear on what you’re looking for here.

Directed Masturbation For Toy Sluts And Chastity Slaves

Do you enjoy playing with toys? Well, just because I called most JOI phone sex fans “strokers” doesn’t mean you can’t play, too! Just bring your toys and your lube with you when you call. Make sure you let me know you have them, and we’ll work them in. Fleshlight or other male masturbation toy? We’ll use it! Anal toys, like butt plugs, anal beads, dildos, vibrators, etc.? We’ll incorporate that, too. In fact, I think anal toys make JOI phone sex massively more intense, for both of us!

And if you’re a chastity phone sex guy whose cock is locked away, you can still join the fun. I’ll be happy to take you out of your cage and edge you a bit. Or maybe we can do some anal play here, too, or use a vibe on your cage. But if I’m not the one holding the key to your device, I won’t be letting you cum. If I don’t hold the key, I don’t make the decision.

JOI Phone Sex For Sissies And Femmes

If you’re a special lady friend, don’t worry! I wanted to address the traditional strokers first in this post, but I’ll never forget you ladies. I just had to give the guys the first part.

So sissies, crossdressers, panty boys, lingerie fetishist–anyone who likes embracing their feminine side can dress and still enjoy JOI phone sex. How? Well, I’m going to teach you to masturbate like a girl! If you’re all dressed up and feeling like a sexy whore, you can act like one for me.

That’s right, you can rub your clitty for me until you cum in your panties. Doesn’t that sound fantastic? It certainly does to me!

So there you have it, a few ways that you, too, can enjoy JOI phone sex with Ms. KC. Don’t think for a moment, though, that those are the only ways you can indulge. There are plenty of others. It’s just that this post has gone on so long that I feel obligated to end it here! But no matter who you are, if you’re looking for jerk-off instructions, give me a call by clicking the button below. We’ll have so much fun together!

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