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Tease And Denial Phone Sex: You Only Deserve Censored Porn!

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If you’re into tease and denial phone sex or even just certain types of humiliation phone sex, you may have heard of this phenomenon. It’s one of those things that really reminds a lowly submissive of their place. I am, of course, talking about censored porn.

What The Hell Is Censored Porn?

You may be wondering what that is and why the hell that would appeal to anyone. Well, it’s just what it sounds like–a type of porn where all the naughty bits are censored out. Sometimes, they pixel the areas, and sometimes, they use censor bars, as pictured above. But either way, you can’t really see anything important.

Why might someone choose this? Well, to be fair, they rarely choose it for themselves. Instead, it’s a type of domination or domination phone sex. The Domme tells the sub they’re not allowed to see anything naughty. I titled this blog “Tease And Denial Phone Sex” because censored porn is sort of a type of tease and denial, if you think about it. You’re being teased by what you can’t see. You know it’s underneath that pixellation or that censor bar, but you can’t actually see it. And you’re being denied by that as well. So, yes, censored porn is definitely a form of tease and denial phone sex, if you ask me.

This Form Of Tease And Denial Phone Sex Is Very Popular Now

You might not think so, but this form of tease and denial phone sex is very popular now. It’s very trendy to sentence one’s subs to a life of censored porn. And they love it because it reminds them that they’re not good enough to even merit the sight of a boob!

So in that regard, you can even say that humiliation is a big part of it, too. This is especially true, when you consider the kinds of subs who are most interested in this manner of play. Yes, I’m talking sissies and cuckolds!

How Sissies And Cuckolds Use Censored Porn

Sissy phone sex callers and cuckold phone sex callers both use censored porn. Or perhaps I should say, their Mistresses tell them to use it. For many of them, it’s simply an extension of a pussy-free lifestyle for both types of caller.

These kinds of sissies and cuckolds both know the truth. They’re not worthy to look on the female body uncensored. They’re not allowed to see anything other than what might show in a bikini. And for some, even that is too much. Their eyes simply are not good enough to behold such a sight

I’ve actually had several callers lately talk to me about censored porn. It’s not something i had considered before then. But now, I’m thinking it’s actually a brilliant strategy for a Mistress to use to remind a sub of their place. And of course, you guys know how much I love tease and denial phone sex and cock control phone sex in general.

You Can Even Do This Kind Of Tease And Denial Phone Sex If You’re In Male Chastity

And in honor of Locktober, I think I should mention this is actually great for chastity phone sex subs, too. They can look at (censored) porn all they want. They just can’t touch themselves, and they can’t see that’ll get them too excited. It’s perfect, actually!

Is censored porn a part of your life of orgasm denial phone sex? If so, I’d really like to hear about it, whether you’re a sissy, a cuckold, a chastity slave, or anything else. Give me, Ms. KC, a ring by clicking the button below. Talk to you soon!

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Male Chastity Phone Sex: Welcome To Locktober!

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Hi, guys, it’s the first day of Locktober, and I want to know what all you male chastity phone sex lovers are doing this month! How many of you are participating in Locktober, and how will you be doing it?

There Are A Lot Of Fun Ways To Do Locktober

There are so many ways you can participate, guys. You don’t have to stay locked up throughout the entire month if you don’t think you can handle it. You can just lock for certain days and try to extend your personal best record of “locked in chastity” just one more day every time you do it. Or, alternatively, you can go all in on chastity phone sex and do Locktober, No-Nut November, Denial December, and Dry January. But that, of course, is best left to those who are used to long-term denial.

So what if you’re not used to long-term orgasm denial phone sex? That’s perfectly okay because not everyone is! Instead, you can participate in ways that don’t require you to be locked up from October 1st to January 31st or whatever.

What are some of those ways that you can participate? Strap in, and I’ll tell you all about them.

How To Enjoy Male Chastity Phone Sex Without Long-Term Orgasm Denial

One way to do male chastity phone sex during Locktober is to simply lock yourself away and deny, deny, deny. But that’s perhaps not the ideal way for guys who aren’t used to it. Don’t worry, though, because there are other ways that you can do Locktober without total denial.

For instance, you can lock yourself up occasionally, for a day or two, and then let yourself back out to edge. Call me and let me give you many ideas for how best to engage in orgasm edging phone sex. You can edge for a while for some relief and go back into your cage. You can edge and then ruin your orgasm. Or you can even edge for a bit and then cum, then return to your chastity device. All of these things are acceptable (assuming you don’t have a Mistress telling you not to do them, of course).

Let’s talk about ruined orgasm phone sex in the context of male chastity phone sex for a moment, since I mentioned it already. Ruined orgasms are a fantastic way to help you extend the amount of time you can stay in chastity. They help you let off some steam, so to speak, without giving the fulfillment of a regular orgasm. So that provides you fuel to keep going with your denial. (Prostate milking phone sex can do the same thing, by the way.) The more you know…!

Some Tease And Denial With Your Keyholder Mistress

Also, some people don’t realize this, but there’s no fun in just locking your cock up and forgetting about it until the end of Locktober. You have to play around some to really engage in edging the way you should to enjoy your time in male chastity phone sex to the best of your ability.

That’s why I like to recommend a good tease and denial phone sex with me at least once during the duration of your lockup. I can help you tease and edge yourself to keep you on the edge for as long as you want. I promise, that’ll make the experience more intense!

So if you wanna talk male chastity phone sex and cock control phone sex in general with me this Locktober, I invite you to give me a ring. Just click the button below to call Ms. KC’s male chastity line. I look forward to hearing from you soon!

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Toy Play Phone Sex: Bring ‘Em Out!

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Today’s post is about toy play phone sex, which is exactly what it sounds like–callers using toys on themselves with my assistance! And let me tell you, it is *so* much fun.

I’m not sure why it’s gotten to be so popular lately. (But I’m not complaining!) Maybe it’s because we’re now less than 100 days until Christmas. Perhaps that’s why people are bringing their toys out to play with all of a sudden (and I’m not just talking pegging phone sex, either!). But whatever the reason, I’m loving it.

Toy Play Phone Sex Can Mean So Many Different Things

Okay, so I sort of flippantly said, “It’s exactly what it sounds like” above when explaining toy play phone sex. And in a way, that’s true. It is what it sounds like. But when a lot of people think of sex toys, they often just think of insertables, like dildos and butt plugs. And don’t get me wrong, lots of you guys are interested in those, too. But they’re not the be-all and end-all of toy play phone sex. There are so many other types of toys out there you guys like to play with, too.

For instance, nipple clamps are hugely popular. You wouldn’t necessarily think so, at least not until you consider that many people really enjoy a little pain to go along with their pleasure. I think that’s also why CBT phone sex toys are so loved by a certain contingent of guys. They don’t even have to be CBT-specific toys that came from a sex toy shop. They can just be things like clothespins (also for use on nipples, too), shoestrings, hair ties, hair brushes, wooden spoons, the list goes on.

Of Course, Anal Training And Anal Play Are Very Popular

But don’t think for a moment that because I called other types of toys that insertables are not popular. Guys love putting phallic-shaped objects in holes. Maybe they’re sucking on a dildo to show off their cocksucking phone sex skills. Or maybe they’re using a butt plug or a vibrator on their ass. Perhaps they even want some anal training phone sex from their favorite MILF Mistress, to help them learn to take larger things inside themselves. I’m happy to accommodate (no pun intended) all these types of toy play!

Let’s Not Forget The Cock Control Toys, Either

We also shouldn’t forget the cock control phone sex toys when we discuss toy play phone sex, either. Chastity devices are the obvious one, but things like wand vibrators, male masturbators (like the Fleshlight), and grinding toys are important, too. All of these things can help you build discipline and control over your sexuality if they’re used properly.

It really doesn’t matter what kind of toy you choose to bring to your Mistress phone sex session with me. As long as you bring something you enjoy, I promise you, we’ll both have a lot of fun!

The only requirements I have when it comes to toys are as follows. Number one, please let me know as soon as possible that you have a toy (and what it is). The sooner I’m aware of it, the sooner we can incorporate it into our play. Number two, make sure you bring lube if your toy requires it. We’re not having any of this “using spit as anal lube” nonsense going on here. I don’t want you to accidentally hurt yourself by not being properly prepared, okay?

Otherwise, when it comes to toys, most anything goes! So if you have a toy play phone sex fantasy you’d like to share with your favorite mature Femdom, you know what to do. Just click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call today. Talk to you soon!

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Virtual Keyholding Phone Sex: Needing A Chastity Mistress

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Hey, guys, I wanna talk to you today about virtual keyholding phone sex, which many of you also know by the name of male chastity phone sex. This is one of the many fetishes I really love talking about with my callers. So let’s discuss it today!

Missing A Long-Term Chastity Mistress

One of the reasons a person may seek out a virtual keyholding phone sex experience is that they’re missing an old long-term chastity Mistress. Perhaps their relationship with their chastity Mistress ended for one reason or another. People drift apart. Things simply don’t work out. Circumstances interfere with otherwise good relationships. It could be any reason at all. But despite the end of the relationship, the sub in question still aches for being locked away in chastity. That’s where I come in.

They long for this past relationship and the security that comes with knowing their cocks are caged. They need someone to provide this for them. And so they come to me and ask me if I can. Can I? Yes, I can–with a caveat. And that caveat is, only if we’re a good fit for each other. A little talking, a little experimenting together, a little time–that’s all it takes to determine if we fit together well.

I’m not going to try to make something work that clearly isn’t going to work. That’s not good for either of us. But if I think our association has potential, I’m more than happy to talk about virtual keyholding phone sex with you.

Needing Male Chastity In Your Life As Extreme Cock Control

I understand the longing for a keyholder phone sex relationship. You crave giving up the control yourself and handing it over to someone stronger than you are. Long-term chastity is cock control phone sex carried to the extreme. So while not everyone craves that, some do, and nothing else will do.

Now, I know some of you may wonder why others want chastity phone sex so badly. The truth is, I could write a three-part series on the benefits of chastity and why people need it. (And, yes, I’ll consider doing so at some point.) It’s not all about orgasm denial. It can be fun, playful, a type of foreplay, etc. There are many ways to enjoy it.

But for now, I’d like to focus on those of you who do need virtual keyholding phone sex with a chastity Mistress like me. I know some of you are really missing that kind of connection. You come to me on the phone, via email, through NF chat, etc., to ask me if you can really experience that kind of connection over the phone. And my answer to that is, yes, yes, you can!

Building A Bond With Virtual Keyholding Phone Sex

Just in the past week, I’ve had multiple people reach out to me about this. And here’s the thing: Even if you can’t see the other person, there are ways to build that bond. You just have to know what works for you so that you can articulate that to me.

Do you want short-term or long-term chastity? Are you into very sensual Mistresses or very strict Mistresses? What are your goals for being locked in chastity? What do you hope to accomplish? These are some questions you should think about before you reach out to a chastity Mistress for virtual keyholding phone sex.

Like with most things in life, you have to find what fits. I can’t guarantee that I’ll be a good fit for everyone, but I feel sure I can click with some of you. There are also things we can lay out together that I can help you with, like scheduling, personality, end goals, communication, and so forth. So if you’d like to speak with me about chastity phone sex, I’d love to hear from you. Just click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call. I hope this helps. Talk to you soon!

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My Chastity Phone Sex Rules

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Hey there, guys, let’s talk chastity phone sex today! This is a very popular topic for me. I get a lot of guys who are interested in male chastity phone sex with me. So since so many of you are into that sort of thing, I thought we’d discuss it today.

The First Rule Of Chastity Phone Sex

I have a couple of rules when it comes to chastity, and I’m pretty strict about them. (This has nothing to do with whether or not I’ll let you out of chastity sometimes, by the way.)

The first rule is, if you’re interested in chastity and virtual keyholding phone sex with me as your main chastity Mistress, you must convince me to lock your cock up. You see, I’m not a Mistress who necessarily believes all men’s dicks should be locked away. Some ladies do, and I’m perfectly okay with that, as they’re welcome to their own opinions. But for me, I think chastity is only for guys who are truly serious about it. (Which, let’s be honest, rules out many of them.)

If you only imagine yourself in male chastity when you’re horny, there’s a good possibility that you’re not going to be able to convince me. I don’t want to lock you up just because the thought of it makes your cock hard. I want to lock you up because it makes you a better servant to me. Otherwise, what am I getting out of this arrangement?

As sort of a corollary to rule one, I also want you to do your due diligence when it comes to research about chastity and chastity phone sex. You’ll be learning about how to maintain cleanliness and health, how to choose the right chastity device for you, and so on.

Doing Your Research On Male Chastity

So what I want you to do, once you have thoroughly researched chastity and how it works, is come to me and say, “Ms. KC, I would like for you to lock me in chastity.” Be prepared for me to ask you why you want this. Like I said above, if the answer is, “Because the thought of it makes me horny,” I’m denying your request. If I think you have potential as a chaste sub, I might send you back to the drawing board for more reflection and research. But if not, it’s a flat no.

If I’m impressed by your response to my question about why, though, we’ll move on to the the next phase. This is where we practice cock control phone sex and orgasm denial phone sex in the short term. This will give you an idea of what chastity phone sex might be like. I’ll also teach you prostate milking so that you can maintain your prostate health while also being denied orgasm.

Cock Control Can Lead To Virtual Keyholding If You Do Well

At this point, if you’ve done well with your trial runs, I’ll allow you to purchase a male chastity device. I’m leaving it up to you what kind of cock cage to buy. That’s because I want it to fit you perfectly. If you choose the wrong thing, you can always buy another one until you find the right one.

Then, we’ll indulge in some chastity phone sex. I’ll let you lock it up for me, and I’ll virtually hold the key for you. This means I won’t physically have your key, but my word will control your access to it. You can expect a lot of tease and denial phone sex during this time. Why? Because I want to test your self-discipline and resolve.

Finally, if all our trial runs go well, then we’ll discuss whether we want this chastity thing to be a part-time thing or a full-time thing. If you only want it to be part-time, that’s fine. If you’re interested in something more long-term, that’s also great.

One final note here: If another Mistress has locked you in chastity, please don’t come to me asking to be let out. I will not override another Mistress’s orders for anyone. I have too much respect for other dominant women to ever do that.

All right, guys, there’s the lowdown on chastity phone sex with me. If it’s something you’re interested in, simply click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call on Niteflirt. Talk to you soon!

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Male Chastity Phone Sex: With A Chastity Device And Without

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Hi, guys, let’s talk about male chastity phone sex today! I know most people, when they think of chastity phone sex, assume a chastity device must be involved. And, yes, that is one way to indulge in it.

But I’m also here to tell you that the device–the cock cage–is not 100% necessary. Yes, it definitely serves as a very real and very potent reminder that your dick is no longer your own. But it’s not something that you absolutely have to have in order to be a chaste slave to your favorite MILF Mistress.

The Main Goal Of Chastity Is Orgasm Denial

As the above subtitle states, honestly, the main goal of male chastity is orgasm denial phone sex. It can be long-term or short-term denial. But the goal of chastity is to deprive you of cumming for however long I see fit, right?

Orgasm denial is, of course, a form of cock control phone sex. It helps you learn to control your urges, rather than allowing them to control you. This is a very useful skill to have, especially if you want to serve a MILF Mistress phone sex lady like me. If you can’t control yourself so that you can focus on pleasing your Mistress, you’re going in reverse!

So some people like to turn to male chastity phone sex to help them with this sort of thing. I, personally, find chastity, with or without a device to be very helpful in this regard. Many people like the restrictive feel of a chastity device or the constant reminder that I’m in control of their cock and their orgasms. But others might not be able to use a chastity device, for multiple reasons.

Why A Chastity Device Might Not Be For You

The obvious elephant in the room when it comes to male chastity phone sex devices is a spouse. If you’re married and your spouse is unaware of your extra-curricular activities, a chastity device is an automatic no-go. You can’t lock it away if you’re trying to go under the radar. And that’s okay, no worries! We can work with that.

Another reason you might not be able to wear a male chastity phone sex device is anatomy. Some people are just not built in such a way as to make wearing one a possibility. You can try different styles and models, of course. But you may find that none of them work for you. Does that mean you can’t be chaste sub for your Mistress? Of course not! We can still make it work for you.

Other people may not be able to wear a chastity device because of traveling, or security at work, or many other reasons. Due to various life circumstances, they simply can’t use one. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be a male chastity phone sex slave for me. It just means your “device” is the honor system, lol.

Male Chastity Phone Sex Can Work Without A Device

Yes, it’s true that chastity might be considered more “fun” with a device. You get to get into virtual keyholder phone sex and that sort of thing. But the device is not strictly necessary.

If you’re a person who can’t wear one, regardless of reason, I’m still able to work with you. I’ll be happy to help control your cock using only the aforementioned honor system. But I do expect you to be 100% honest with me at all times. If you can’t keep your hands off of it in my absence, you must confess that to me. You’ll need to be sure of that. But otherwise, things will function in exactly the same way as they do for my chaste subs with devices.

So tell me, are you a chastity device user? If so, great! If not, I’d like to hear why not. And if you want to discuss male chastity phone sex further, then you know what to do. Simply click the button below to give me, Ms. KC, a call!

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JOI Phone Sex: Guided Masturbation For Strokers And More!

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Ok, guys, I want to talk to you today about another fetish I really enjoy, and that’s JOI phone sex. The reason I decided to write about this (fabulous) fetish is that I’ve been getting a lot of messages about it. People see that I’m a Femdom, and they wonder if I’m really into giving JOI. So I’m going to address this right here and right now: Yes, I do JOI phone sex. And not only do I do it, but I also really, really love it!

So let’s delve a little farther into JOI, what it means, who can enjoy it, and in which ways you can indulge in it!

So What *Is* JOI Phone Sex, Mistress?

Let’s answer the obvious question first and foremost. Most of you are probably familiar with the term “JOI,” but maybe there are some who aren’t. So we’ll define it for those of you who might not know.

JOI stands for “jerk-off instructions.” Others might know it as guided masturbation phone sex. It falls under the larger umbrella of cock control phone sex.

Some people might consider it “Femdom lite” or whatever. But I, personally, think it’s a great way for guys who aren’t into hardcore Femdom stuff to experience Woman In Control-type fantasies. They want to play with themselves, and they want to get off. But what could be sexier than a woman giving you directions on how to stroke, while you turn off your brain and just do what you’re told? It’s so hot!

Who Can Indulge In Guided Masturbation?

The great thing about JOI phone sex is that pretty much anyone can enjoy it. All it takes is a cock, your hand (or toys, if you like), some lube (if you want), and a willingness to let go and follow directions.

That means if you’re a regular guy, you can totally go for it. If you’re a sissy phone sex girl–that is, one of my special lady friends–you can learn how to rub your little clitty just like a girl would do. Also, if you have toys you want to incorporate, just let me know, and we’ll work them in, be they male masturbation toys or anal toys. If you are a gooner who likes lots of orgasm edging phone sex, I can maket hat happen, too. If you’re locked in male chastity, you can even participate (more on that later).

So it really doesn’t matter who you are. If you want to give it a whirl, you’re welcome!

How To Enjoy Jerk-Off Instructions With Your Favorite Mature Femdom

Traditional strokers may want to bring their lube with them. (What’s your favorite kind, by the way? I’m partial to using oil-based lube for JOI phone sex. Just don’t ever use it with condoms, please and thank you.) Gooning lovers will definitely need it. Would you like to be told how to stroke? Or do you prefer to hear a story or do a small roleplay while you stroke? Or a little of both? We can do any or all of that. However, you should know that I don’t roleplay sex. It doesn’t matter how nice your cock is, I don’t give my callers pussy privileges!

Also, you’ll want to tell me if what you’re after is actually tease and denial phone sex or if you really want tease and delay. What’s the difference, you ask? Tease and delay merely delays your orgasm a bit. You’ll still get to have it, but you’ll have to wait a bit. Tease and denial, on the other hand, means no orgasm for you! So be sure to specify what you want. Or if you prefer for it to be Mistress’s choice, be ready for anything, up to and including ruined orgasm phone sex! (That one’s a whole other blog post in and of itself.)

Anyway, the moral of the story is, if you want to get off, make sure to tell me! I can help you let off some steam. But make sure you’re clear on what you’re looking for here.

Directed Masturbation For Toy Sluts And Chastity Slaves

Do you enjoy playing with toys? Well, just because I called most JOI phone sex fans “strokers” doesn’t mean you can’t play, too! Just bring your toys and your lube with you when you call. Make sure you let me know you have them, and we’ll work them in. Fleshlight or other male masturbation toy? We’ll use it! Anal toys, like butt plugs, anal beads, dildos, vibrators, etc.? We’ll incorporate that, too. In fact, I think anal toys make JOI phone sex massively more intense, for both of us!

And if you’re a chastity phone sex guy whose cock is locked away, you can still join the fun. I’ll be happy to take you out of your cage and edge you a bit. Or maybe we can do some anal play here, too, or use a vibe on your cage. But if I’m not the one holding the key to your device, I won’t be letting you cum. If I don’t hold the key, I don’t make the decision.

JOI Phone Sex For Sissies And Femmes

If you’re a special lady friend, don’t worry! I wanted to address the traditional strokers first in this post, but I’ll never forget you ladies. I just had to give the guys the first part.

So sissies, crossdressers, panty boys, lingerie fetishist–anyone who likes embracing their feminine side can dress and still enjoy JOI phone sex. How? Well, I’m going to teach you to masturbate like a girl! If you’re all dressed up and feeling like a sexy whore, you can act like one for me.

That’s right, you can rub your clitty for me until you cum in your panties. Doesn’t that sound fantastic? It certainly does to me!

So there you have it, a few ways that you, too, can enjoy JOI phone sex with Ms. KC. Don’t think for a moment, though, that those are the only ways you can indulge. There are plenty of others. It’s just that this post has gone on so long that I feel obligated to end it here! But no matter who you are, if you’re looking for jerk-off instructions, give me a call by clicking the button below. We’ll have so much fun together!

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