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Tease And Denial Phone Sex: Tease And Denial, Tease And Delay, Or Ruined Orgasms?

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Tease and denial phone sex is a favorite of mine. It’s a great form of cock control phone sex that I really like engaging in. So let’s talk about tease and denial a little, shall we?

Get To Know Me On Tease And Denial Phone Sex

One thing you should know about me is that I can definitely be a “be careful what you ask for” Mistress. If you ask for tease and denial, then you will definitely *get* tease and denial. So if you don’t want to be completely denied at the end, I suggest you ask me for tease and delay phone sex instead.

So what’s the difference between the two? Well, the answer is all in the name. With tease and denial phone sex, I’ll tease you like crazy and get you all worked up for me. Then, at the end, I won’t let you cum at all. I’ll send you to bed with blue balls! But with tease and delay, you’ll be teased in the exact same (ruthless) manner, but you’ll be allowed to cum at the end…after a delay. The exact amount of time involved in that delay just depends on my mood. But you’ll be able to get off before you hang up the phone.

Now, if you like playing with fire, you might say “Mistress’s choice.” That means I can choose what I want to do with you after our teasing session. I might let you cum. I might delay your orgasm, or I might deny it. Or I might even do something totally different, such as….

Ruined Orgasms Are Also An Option

Another form of cock control that I really like is ruined orgasm phone sex. This is another one of the options that comes into play when you elect to do Mistress’s choice during your teasing session.

So what’s a ruined orgasm? It’s when you technically get to cum, as in your penis has the orgasm response, but it’s not satisfying or fulfilling at all. It just kind of sucks, lol. Some guys love ruined orgasms, and some love to hate them. But me, I’m always a big fan of giving them out!

Choose Denial, Delay, Ruined Orgasms, Or Something Else

That being said, I do allow people to choose their own ending to their cock teasing phone sex fantasies. Assuming they ask me nicely, of course. You don’t get to come in and demand what you want, but if you make it a polite request, I’ll happily take your needs into consideration when it comes to tease and denial phone sex and whether or not that’s actually what you want.

I always ask up front if you want denial, delay, ruined orgasms, or something else. Perhaps you’re longing for tease and denial phone sex and do want to be sent to bed with blue balls. Maybe that ache between your legs gives you something to look forward to every day. Or maybe you do want an orgasm at the end so that you can go to bed fully satiated. Or perhaps what you need is ruination–to have your orgasm ruined so that you’re just as tormented as you would be if you had been denied altogether.

It’s all up to you. What do you need? What are your feelings on tease and denial phone sex? Do you love it, hate it, or have mixed feelings on the subject? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so why not give me, Ms. KC, a call by clicking the button below? You can request what you want to happen during your prick tease phone sex session, and I’ll be glad to give it to you!

Talk to you soon!

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JOI Phone Sex: Guided Masturbation For Strokers And More!

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Ok, guys, I want to talk to you today about another fetish I really enjoy, and that’s JOI phone sex. The reason I decided to write about this (fabulous) fetish is that I’ve been getting a lot of messages about it. People see that I’m a Femdom, and they wonder if I’m really into giving JOI. So I’m going to address this right here and right now: Yes, I do JOI phone sex. And not only do I do it, but I also really, really love it!

So let’s delve a little farther into JOI, what it means, who can enjoy it, and in which ways you can indulge in it!

So What *Is* JOI Phone Sex, Mistress?

Let’s answer the obvious question first and foremost. Most of you are probably familiar with the term “JOI,” but maybe there are some who aren’t. So we’ll define it for those of you who might not know.

JOI stands for “jerk-off instructions.” Others might know it as guided masturbation phone sex. It falls under the larger umbrella of cock control phone sex.

Some people might consider it “Femdom lite” or whatever. But I, personally, think it’s a great way for guys who aren’t into hardcore Femdom stuff to experience Woman In Control-type fantasies. They want to play with themselves, and they want to get off. But what could be sexier than a woman giving you directions on how to stroke, while you turn off your brain and just do what you’re told? It’s so hot!

Who Can Indulge In Guided Masturbation?

The great thing about JOI phone sex is that pretty much anyone can enjoy it. All it takes is a cock, your hand (or toys, if you like), some lube (if you want), and a willingness to let go and follow directions.

That means if you’re a regular guy, you can totally go for it. If you’re a sissy phone sex girl–that is, one of my special lady friends–you can learn how to rub your little clitty just like a girl would do. Also, if you have toys you want to incorporate, just let me know, and we’ll work them in, be they male masturbation toys or anal toys. If you are a gooner who likes lots of orgasm edging phone sex, I can maket hat happen, too. If you’re locked in male chastity, you can even participate (more on that later).

So it really doesn’t matter who you are. If you want to give it a whirl, you’re welcome!

How To Enjoy Jerk-Off Instructions With Your Favorite Mature Femdom

Traditional strokers may want to bring their lube with them. (What’s your favorite kind, by the way? I’m partial to using oil-based lube for JOI phone sex. Just don’t ever use it with condoms, please and thank you.) Gooning lovers will definitely need it. Would you like to be told how to stroke? Or do you prefer to hear a story or do a small roleplay while you stroke? Or a little of both? We can do any or all of that. However, you should know that I don’t roleplay sex. It doesn’t matter how nice your cock is, I don’t give my callers pussy privileges!

Also, you’ll want to tell me if what you’re after is actually tease and denial phone sex or if you really want tease and delay. What’s the difference, you ask? Tease and delay merely delays your orgasm a bit. You’ll still get to have it, but you’ll have to wait a bit. Tease and denial, on the other hand, means no orgasm for you! So be sure to specify what you want. Or if you prefer for it to be Mistress’s choice, be ready for anything, up to and including ruined orgasm phone sex! (That one’s a whole other blog post in and of itself.)

Anyway, the moral of the story is, if you want to get off, make sure to tell me! I can help you let off some steam. But make sure you’re clear on what you’re looking for here.

Directed Masturbation For Toy Sluts And Chastity Slaves

Do you enjoy playing with toys? Well, just because I called most JOI phone sex fans “strokers” doesn’t mean you can’t play, too! Just bring your toys and your lube with you when you call. Make sure you let me know you have them, and we’ll work them in. Fleshlight or other male masturbation toy? We’ll use it! Anal toys, like butt plugs, anal beads, dildos, vibrators, etc.? We’ll incorporate that, too. In fact, I think anal toys make JOI phone sex massively more intense, for both of us!

And if you’re a chastity phone sex guy whose cock is locked away, you can still join the fun. I’ll be happy to take you out of your cage and edge you a bit. Or maybe we can do some anal play here, too, or use a vibe on your cage. But if I’m not the one holding the key to your device, I won’t be letting you cum. If I don’t hold the key, I don’t make the decision.

JOI Phone Sex For Sissies And Femmes

If you’re a special lady friend, don’t worry! I wanted to address the traditional strokers first in this post, but I’ll never forget you ladies. I just had to give the guys the first part.

So sissies, crossdressers, panty boys, lingerie fetishist–anyone who likes embracing their feminine side can dress and still enjoy JOI phone sex. How? Well, I’m going to teach you to masturbate like a girl! If you’re all dressed up and feeling like a sexy whore, you can act like one for me.

That’s right, you can rub your clitty for me until you cum in your panties. Doesn’t that sound fantastic? It certainly does to me!

So there you have it, a few ways that you, too, can enjoy JOI phone sex with Ms. KC. Don’t think for a moment, though, that those are the only ways you can indulge. There are plenty of others. It’s just that this post has gone on so long that I feel obligated to end it here! But no matter who you are, if you’re looking for jerk-off instructions, give me a call by clicking the button below. We’ll have so much fun together!

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